By Julie Guterman
One would hardly call this wedding invitation “darling”, that’s like calling the Eiffel Tower a “cute” building. I only call it that because the married couple’s last name is Darling. If you are planning an elaborate and amazing fairytale wedding at the esteemed Biltmore Estate in Asheville, NC, then your wedding invitation needs to be equally elaborate and amazing. This is why Carrie and Matthew chose DM Paper Designs to design their invitation. They knew of the quality of Debra’s work because she had designed Carrie’s sister and brother-in-law’s wedding invitation the year before.
Carrie met with Debra with the concept in mind that she wanted for her invitations. It was to look like a storybook, have multiple pages, and she felt strongly about using her and Matt’s engagement photos throughout. Debra painstakingly created 7 components for the wedding, including Save the Dates, a Custom Monogram, the Invitation, Wedding Program, Thank You notes, plus Table Cards and Escort Cards.
Personally, I have received and sent out emails to people saying “hey, save such and such date for this event”, or even done it via a phone call. Not quite as formal as the Save The Date card the future Darling couple mailed to their guests. It was filled with multiple pictures, travel, contact, accommodation and local activity particulars. The back page included a personal message from Carrie and Matt explaining why North Carolina is so special to them and how excited they were to share their wedding with friends and family. In order to include all of the information, Debra designed a four panel gate fold. The lavender and green colors echoed the photos taken of Carrie and Matt at the Biltmore Estate. Keeping with the fairytale storybook theme, Debra incorporated love birds and vines to set the romantic tone.

(image of save the date by Crystal Connelly Photography)
After welcoming such a highly crafted save the date notice, I’m sure their guests could not wait to receive their Wedding Invitation in the mail. This invitation put Prince William and Kate Middleton’s invitation to shame. Maintaining Carrie’s theme, Debra designed the intricate five page invitation to look like an elaborate fairytale storybook. The envelope alone is a piece of beauty, in a shimmer champagne gold paper with a beautiful medium blue pearlized liner. Debra designed the artwork and created a personal Monogram for Carrie and Matt which was printed on the back flap. According to Carrie, “Debra is a true professional, and her way of creating digital proofs, and then a physical proof just shows how much she cares to get it just perfect!”
**Spoiler Alert – Please do not let your young children read the following if they still believe in the Disney princesses.**
The royal purple cover of the storybook repeats Carrie and Matt’s monogram, was set with a crystal embellishment, and revealed the wedding date. As you turn the page, the story unfolds the official declaration inviting guests to the wedding…. ‘Once Upon a Time.. In a Faraway Land, “Darling” met his “Beauty’, referring of course to Matthew Darling and Carrie as his Beauty. And here’s the spoiler – the princesses at Disney are actually real people wearing costumes and makeup. Carrie had a previous job at Disney World playing the role of “Belle” from Beauty and The Beast in the stage shows. And if you don’t remember your Disney trivia, Darling is the last name of Wendy’s family in Peter Pan. Are you having an “A-ha” moment?
The following two pages of the invitation story included a whimsical map of Asheville, NC and a pocket fold with three separate cards. Debra designed the RSVP, Reception, and Details cards to fit in the pocket. They were each printed on the beautiful champagne gold paper with royal purple ink, carrying through the lovebird and vine decorations.



(images of invitation by Crystal Connelly Photography)
The Wedding Program. And calling this a “program” is like calling “War and Peace” a short story. For the ceremony itself, Carrie wanted to present her guests with a beautiful keepsake program that was both formal and clean on the outside, yet filled with information within. This is where she wanted her and Matt’s story to be told, how they chose their wedding theme, information about the Biltmore Estate and its importance to them, and more. It is truly a tale of their own personal fairytale. Debra fashioned an eight page booklet with a cover, bound with a gorgeous royal purple silk ribbon down the side. The couple’s monogram was situated prominently on the front of the soft and glistening pink paper.


(images by Crystal Connelly Photography)
Carrie came up with the clever idea of having her Escort Cards in the shape of leaves and set amidst a flower display. Debra created a custom die and the artwork for the leaves, which had each guest’s name on one side, while the flip side directed them to their table. Wanting to keep the Disney theme subtle and elegant, Carrie named the dining tables after Disney quotes and love songs. The Table Cards again carried through the romantic theme and colors, using the medium blue and lavender pearlized cardstocks, lovebirds and vines, and a crystal embellishment.




(images of table cards by Crystal Connelly Photography)
So the fairytale wedding was perfect, food delicious, setting beautiful and gorgeous paper designs by Debra found throughout to complement the day. Time for everyone to sit back and relax.
Except Happily Ever After can’t quite begin until after you have finished writing all of your Thank You Cards. Once the photographer had developed the photos from the wedding, Carrie sent them to Debra who created the custom thank you notes by incorporating photos of the Darling couple at their wedding.


(images of thank you cards by Crystal Connelly Photography)
The Darling Wedding stationery showcases the creative work by DM Paper Designs. Perhaps said best when sung by Jiminy Cricket in When You Wish Upon A Star, Debra is able to bring to life “Anything Your Heart Desires…..” As the new Mrs. Darling said, “Sometimes when I hear myself explaining the things I want to her, I am sure she is going to tell me I am crazy, but she just listens, and somehow makes it happen!”